This should probably be a Baduy Pride update, but whatever.
After being together for over 10 years now, we never seem to shake off the feeling that we're somehow living a charmed life in terms of our relationship. As much as I believe myself to be a man of science, numbers and hard facts, things keep happening to us that defy logic or at the very least make for very, very convenient coincidences.
So many coincidences.
I can be ultra-logical and practical with most things but with Tobie I've learned to keep an eye out (or an ear out) for signs that we're on the right track. It's sort of like when the right background music plays in an adventure game as a cue that you made the right choice somewhere, so you keep on going. I feel that rhythm in our life together and the beat is just as strong if not stronger than when we first got together. It's crazy to even think about it but I've learned to stop fighting it and just go with the flow.
We just work.